That’s fantastic that you were able to get him the help he needed but without making a big deal of involving a ton of people. Great job Mama!

My son’s school has a great staff.
He had similar situation with one student that was verbally/emotionally bullying him and he didnt want me to interfere…However, when I realized it wasn’t going away, I spoke with a few of his favorite teachers and also spoke with the school counselor about the situation without mentioning names.
I explained to them his reluctance to involve others in helping him…So, instead we made it known to him that if he needed to talk to someone at school about the bully, classes, or anything, these adults were there for him. It gave him a secure and accepted feeling. The counselor invited to meet with him once a week. Sometimes he went and sometimes he didn’t.
He felt more empowered and had a safe place. I hope things have improved for your daughter.
If not, maybe finding someone she can trust and confide in at school will be helpful.

I’m so very sorry your daughter is struggling with bullies. Is she still being bullied after you changed schools? How is she being bullied? Is it physical or emotional or verbal? You may need to escalate this to the school administration in order to protect her…even if she doesn’t want you to.